Comments on: Parenting

By: mamasofea

mamasofea — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 08:33:04 +0000

salam munirah..
dah lama i jadi silent reader.. admiring your passion, strength.. patience with 3 babies.. tp bile u down camni i feel i hv to say sumthing bcoz all this while u inspired me..(nanti baby i besar i nak buat mcm2 activity like u did with your kids.. insyaallah)..

there was once i complaint penat jaga baby yg baru sorang.. dunno how other ppl cope with 2,3,4…. one person told me.. a mother gives her all.. no matter how many child she has.. she gives everything she can..so dont feel bad coz u hv given your best… logic and math doesnt work when it comes to love.. no matter how many u have you love them all 100%.. bukannye 100% divide 3…

and if this can make u feel better.. your kids are lucky to hv mummy around all the time.. in
my world.. ramai je yg anak sorg tp if u ask them what thier baby can do or what’s ur child fav food, they don’t even know.. why..? bcoz we go to work before sunrise.. and come home
after sunset only to see our babies asleep… a collegue brenti keje after she noticed her baby only recognize her smell but not her face.. because she only “see her when she’s asleep

By: mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE

mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 10:00:58 +0000

thanks dear, and yes kadang2 mmg i rase kabut mcm lynette je

By: Lynn Nasir

Lynn Nasir — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 09:56:27 +0000

salam kenal,

semoga terus kuat dan tabah. ramai yg mendoakanmu

p/s: bila baca entry ni teringat Lynette Scavo on Desperate Housewives..hehe..

By: mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE

mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 04:55:49 +0000

yes, im sure every parents have their challenges regardless anak sorang or more. different kids with diff character will giv us diff challenges. it is never the same. i penah ade org say this “ish anak 3 ade maid pun takleh handle” just bcoz die ade anak 4 (more than mine) but little did she consider the age of our kids. anak die yg besar dh sek rendah, she no longer need to basuh berak, tgk time mandi and all. how can she compare my situation and hers regardless anak die 4, more than mine. i was definitely set back with her words, tp org mcm tu mmg no point to argue.

how old are ur twins btw? so far i ade gak bawak all 3 out alone. sbb husband slalu takde. so if tunggu husband balik, dungu gak anak i dok umah je. i dont bring my maid along coz i believe she need some time without the kids too. sedangkn kite punye anak sendiri pun kite bleh hilang sabar, ni kan lagi die. bukan anak die…sure lah lagi cepat die hilang sabar. so there are times i bring the kids out alone. usually athirAh and uZAir will be on the twin stroller and hArith will walk n help me push the stroller. so since 2 on the stroller, takde lah kejadian sorang lari kiri n sorang lari kanan…hihi

mase uzair baby, and the elder 2 still too young to get one of them to walk, i carry uzair gune baby bjorn carrier and lagi 2 on the stroller.

By: aishah

aishah — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 02:21:19 +0000

only those yang face the challenge will know how challenging it is to raise 3 kids below 4. am in that shoe, and tell you what, it is never been easy. but i believe u enjoy it, as much as i do. sabar tuh memang selalu off from it’s suice. lepas tuh, attention wise also agak susah. but i normally curik2 time with one kid by taking them out if the other is asleep. hugs do wonders to them, when i want to make them to listen to me better.

ps – cumanya i masih tak confident to take the kids out without extra hand. hehe. kalau sorang lari kanan, sorang lari kiri, i tatau mana nak tangkap dulu.

-mommy of twins + 4 months old baby boy-